Decisions, decisions

You know how when someone says something to you and it sparks something in your brain? Or maybe you see something and you can't get it out of you mind?Not exactly like getting a song stuck in your head, but more of an idea. One that gets planted so subtly and then roots itself and grows, however quickly or slowly you focus on it.Well, I have found this slight suggestion, which I have heard on several occasions, has finally taken fruition in my brain. Perhaps I just needed the right person to say it to me, or maybe I needed her guidance to fully take advantage of making such a decision.But now I have found myself in quite a predicament. How do I go about finding unbiased resources to make the decision? I choose not to disclose the suggestion given to me here, because it is quite personal and rather a life-changing one at that. The people who could provide me with the most intelligence on this decision are also the people who will want me to accept, rather than decline. And I know I can't really fully trust what I read on the internet.But none of that really matters, because in the end. It's my decision. And I have to make it. And I have to live with it.